very flimsy, that's my point

you send req that correlates to your follow list?

free relay = honey pot

the sooner people get it the better

and yes, to be selective... nostr:npub1m4ny6hjqzepn4rxknuq94c2gpqzr29ufkkw7ttcxyak7v43n6vvsajc2jl has been talking a lot this last couple of days about the problem of blacklisting in general