I'm so sorry. This is brutal
If you have time, give a listen to the most recent 
podcast. Very similar situation in W North Carolina, and it's good to hear what successful help can look like.

https://primal.net/p/npub1qktts9naunvjdwsktq5xjdhwh539xt4x0mqj4yxq0q9dvm03ljvs6sms0r