You should be ashamed of yourself for this drivel. 

1. If you're a Christian, you're supposed to address concerns with a fellow Christian first. 
2. If you don't trave any clue that Stella is a Christian, you're just a disconnected narcissistic douchecanoe EXACTLY of the sort that Stella is decrying.
3. WTF are you doing trying to bring in critical theory into this? Nothing she wrote is anything of the sort and she didn't even know WTF you were talking about and had to look it up and have it explained to her. That's so effing lame. Get over yourself. 

(I'm salty you insulted my friend. I'm salty you'd attempt to bring critical theory into this when it isn't. I'm salty and embarrassed as a Christian saying this treatment of a fellow Christian. Stop being a whiney little turd, man up, and do the right thing. Gross. GROSS!)