nostr:npub1m2lq440p5h5a4t8uugcpa9z8huuechhegwspr8rs7fn7fv9m602sz3qlv3 I will say this was handled well by everyone.  I still don't get it, but it's working.  Here's what makes my head hurt...

I have known this person for more than the decade we have worked together.  I'm supposed to treat them professionally as if they are BOTH the same person (knowledge, expertise, responsibilities) AND differently because of their gender change.