This is my life...

Family Member: Sarah, you should write me more. 
Sarah: *writes randonly* Hi
Family Member: Hey
Sarah: What's new?

*silence for days*

*two weeks pass*

Family Member: you should write me more. 
Sarah: Hey 
Family Member: Hi
Sarah: Look what I am working on! 

*silence for days*

*two weeks pass* 

Family Member: you should write me more. 

I am a constant loop. Am I wrong here?