Definitely, here in Portugal in rural communities you can still see a glimpse of upheld tradition and proper families.  As you well observed, the urbanites are much more prone to loss of social cohesion and college is mostly ideological propaganda nowadays. 
Millennials and gen z are fed relentless propaganda about fake social principles and the ethics of hedonism and egotism. 
I think the only viable option is to provide them with some counter culture, it is the most we can do.