One cool thing is amethyst seems to know you have a private DM relay.  Because it defaulted to nip17 and appears to have sent my test to your chorus relay, and to auth.nostr1.com.  Didn't receive your initial one tho. 

 I haven't seen any DMs from you.  I have giftwrap DMs from other people going back quite a long time even.

I've fixed enough bugs for today though, this one will have to wait for tomorrow. 

 GM ser!  I did some pretty extensive gossip nip17 testing this morning over coffee.  Here's what I found

https://gist.github.com/jeremyd/6274c83dca409ee548cfc1af518274c7 

 I fixed a bunch of problems with DMs this morning. I sent you another one from gossip (I sent you one from amethyst last night).  Did you get either of those?  I've gotten yours now, and the carbon-copies of mine. 

 I checked just now from amethyst, I am still not seeing any.. 🤔