So if I'm following, I should prioritize kind 10002 events, then content of kind 3, then p tags in kind 3. I won't be doing any complex scoring I don't think.

So on the hypothetical side of this, I think, if the relays in p tags were lists, and they were only used to fetch a user's kind 0 event and it contained a list of relays that were updated every time a client added or removed a relay, that should prevent rot while keeping all the extra complexity out of this, no?