you speak with logic but you are neglecting emotion. being pleasant and catering speaks to emotion. spending money is tied to emotion much of the time.

as men we normally dont face the customer/public although we may be the one doing the labor. men tend to be more critical and skeptical of one another. but men and willing to relax certain boundaries and standards when it comes to women. 

shrewd businessmen have mastered this concept, "put your best face forward" aka a woman. 

 I'm not neglecting anything lol. 

It's an open discussion and I have no predisposition. Hearing out the crowd and letting it roll baby, roll 🎶  

 do you think emotion has anything to do with the zaps? do you think the men on here "feel" manly to support the ladies here? do you think men find support other men finacially as a burden? 

 Bits and pieces of those questions have to be in the soup. 

But I ALSO find it extremely interesting I notice the same behaviour out of women. As in, women zap women at the same clip they are received from men. 

 yes, women like women. lol