If I could do it over again I’d have a formal dinner where guests knew they were coming to celebrate something. Once everyone is seated I’d have the ceremony. No wedding party, no unnecessary expense, no dance lessons, no opportunity for outside opinions. Just loved ones, the officiant, a nice restaurant, a beautiful cake, and some champagne… maybe dancing at a club or something later. 

I was blessed to have had a beautiful wedding that I planned and hosted in a way that made sense to my fiancé and me. Our budget was so low I was laughed at by planners & coordinators. Doing it all myself felt like the only way. It was a lot of work and a lot went wrong 😂😂 but I’m glad I did it. 

Whatever you decide do what makes sense to you and your groom. In the end that’s all that matters.