I've sometimes got 10 feeds going simultaneously and I need to know what to look at, first.

I turn off likes, usually.
I look at my favorite follows' replies first, then I look at zapper's stuff, then I turn off replies and look at boosts and quotes.

I only reply to all replies if it's a slow time, like Monday morning in Europe.

And now that we're moving the projects from Simplex and Slack to Nostr, and my gitstuff is high-prio, I'll need more filtering.

A reply to an issue should be top-level, for me. 

 AND I NEED MY PROJECT GROUPS IN MY NOTIFICATIONS 💯  

 If they write me, 

yo Stella, server is 404, I need to see that ASAP 

 Especially if it's a private group ffs.
We literally formed a secret club. I want to see what they wrote. 

 it would be really good to assemble a feature set for a serious slack/github style deployment

i think if such tools exist there is money for hosting, managing and maintaining it 

 That's what GitRepublic will be. 

 The feature set 
nostr:naddr1qvzqqqrcvgpzphtxf40yq9jr82xdd8cqtts5szqyx5tcndvaukhsvfmduetr85ceqydhwumn8ghj7argv4nx7un9wd6zumn0wd68yvfwvdhk6tcpr3mhxue69uhhg6r9vd5hgctyv4kzumn0wd68yvfwvdhk6tcqpdnkjarjv4c82cnvd93s7v6gs5 

 You should ditch the code editor imo. A lot of effort for a feauture no one wants to use. You're not gonna get people to switch from their editor of choice.