Every time I've shared a nostr note with normies using the share link from primal, they complain: nothing loads, what is this sketchy site, etc. I tested it myself in incognito, and it's true-- the note never loads.  Is this due to no default relays being set for new users?

Ditto.pub works with just sharing a note link, but primal is my ride or die and I really think linking to fire notes is a great purple pilling strategy. 

Is this the same for everyone else? What's the fix?