That said, I tend to cross-publish most events to public relays. If I want a wider audience to read something, I put it in a place where they can read it and respond.

nostr:npub10npj3gydmv40m70ehemmal6vsdyfl7tewgvz043g54p0x23y0s8qzztl5h is working on a way for us to be able to write everything to theforest and then categorize it public/private by kind or tag or whatnot, to determine if it will be auto-broadcasted to "public" relays.