Ahh, I see. I like your strength  and the principled approach. How did your ex feel about it? 

I don't have any experience in such things other than a friend tell me that she will never touch that one in particular because of an experience she had. She said a spirit followed her and she couldn't get rid of it for several months. 

The same friend also read Tarot cards for me for the first time ever, and to my surprise she spoke of several concepts that had been overwhelming my thoughts at the time. 

So I would normally just roll my eyes and say it's just silly, but there does seem to be more to it. 

So I heed your warning.