I disagree with everything you’re saying.

First I disagree that Twitter is better than Primal

Second I disagree that Primal, Highlighter, and Zapstream are the best nostr has to offer.  Nostr relays don’t store videos, so I don’t even have to know what zapstream is to know its big tech.

Third even if what you’re saying is true, who cares about pessimism.  Nostr devs will keep improving until we win. 

 He's into BTC believing in first comer advantage. You are obviously into Monero, believing that "better" will prevail in the end. 

 What you’re saying is true.  But the bigger issue I’m addressing is that I’m trying to have an inclusive culture where we coexist.  He’s trying to be exclusive to Bitcoin-only while at the same time bitching about Big Tech’s network effect.
My point: If we all got along, then we can win.