nostr:npub1ye5ptcxfyyxl5vjvdjar2ua3f0hynkjzpx552mu5snj3qmx5pzjscpknpr sounded reluctant to integrate nip17 in ways that make it "just work" as default-decrypt-all-messages isn't for him personally and the crux with nip17 is that the client doesn't even know which conversation a DM belongs to until it's being decrypted but I think that is just a settings requirement. Maybe nip17 needs a "check for and decrypt all private DMs" button.