Yeh, problematic.

I am just no longer sure which wallet to recommend to new users…

I have tried them all, and if you don’t know what you are doing, it will end up being a horrible experience.

Perhaps Phoenix is the best option?  But if you don’t understand a little about channels, it will be problematic.

WOS is gone.
Blue is gone.

Many of the wallets aren’t interoperable.

I am a huge supporter of Lightning, but it seems to be getting worse.