my mom was primary. she ended up in the hospital in june 2021. they didn't tell me. i was being punished for my divorce still. i was her stand in because apparently whomever they tried to use for her was a complete waste of time (my ex husband i think - no surprise there). and then i ended up in other slots too. i have no idea really, i did not use notifications in 2021 and i did not operate in the smart networks. i never openly competed before that. just small things here and there to make a point. 

the boat was me, as i said.