yeah i don’t know if i can be on nostr anymore. peace.


Figured. #ByeFelicia


How come?


Don’t let trolls occupy your time. Mute liberally, and mute all the time.


People can be really mean, it's difficult not to absorb it, I get it

There's good people here, focus on us

In the end, you know what's best for you

Take a pause, but don't leave forever 🫂


You’re the most interesting person on here 🫂


Stay and use more 🖕


💜

But stay


Letting trolls win is kinda sucky, but if it's not working for you, then cut it out of your life.


what happened?


Nostr is the most chill social media out there


Good evening #nostr

Yhat would be a sad day for nostr...
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There is no nostr without Roya.


The issue on Nostr isn't just trolls. I think there are a lot of mentally ill people on nostr. Like, you read some comments and it's really incoherent speech, when the person is completely uninhibited openly insulting people they don't know and having parasocial relationships with people they dont know either


Don't leave us, Royaaaa! 😭😭😭


Just block more liberally. I just blocked Spiral, for instance; he's just a douche that has some problem with women.


Fuck the haters Roya. Nostr needs you.


This is really sad. Take your time…. 💜 just know you’re appreciated here.


Roya left? That is shocking (april fools?). Sometimes we all have off days. I hope she returns.


#Nostr is not the same without one of the bests persons like you, Roya.
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#grownostr #siamstr


What happened?


I understand this feeling. I don't know exactly why roya left but I have had my "fuck nostr" moments too.

last year I quit on International Women's Day because the amount of misogynistic and -insert prefix here-phobic content and memes that were floating around. It was on my own feed. it was in global feed. it was pervasive and everywhere.

I don't expect to be treated special on IWD. It is nice when it happens. When I was working overseas, the men on our development teams celebrated their women counterparts by paying their way during lunch and saying "Happy Women's Day" A simple, heartfelt sentiment. Had they not celebrated us, it would have been just another day at the office and been perfectly fine.

But no, on nostr, it would have been the equivalent of coming to work and having the men spit on us and make us feel less-than all day. Men that we worked alongside every other day of the year show their derision on just that one day.

I had people in my feed who I had interacted with churn out hate memes against women on just that day. It felt disgusting so I quit. what's the point of staying when most of my time spent here was gonna be hitting the block button?

Months later, I came back. I like the immaturity of nostr as a social space where the connections feel more authentic. Blocking is a powerful tool and I use it liberally. the social landscape change a little for the better while I was gone.

here's to hoping it continues to get better so the people who left will come back.

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Don't leave fren!


Hope you’ll be back sometime. But even more than that, I hope the losers who’ve harassed you all know this isn’t a win for them. They’ve dug themselves deeper into their little cesspool existence and you’re still out there living your life and being you.


I appreciate you Roya 🫂

Hope to see you back here soon 💜


I actually can’t imagine Nostr without Roya. Hope you come back girl, screw the haters 🫂


I feel you.


Most of all I want people to do what they need to do to live their best lives. Roya shouldn’t have been subjected to the abuse and trolling that she was. I wish I had come to her defense more often and checked in with her more. She seemed like a master of batting away haters and trolls. I tend to deal with them by subscribing to the notion of “Don’t feed the trolls.” But sometimes a group needs to tell someone their behavior is inappropriate and kindly fuck off.
At the end of the day protecting one’s peace is so important. Nostr isn’t worth sacrificing a healthy, peaceful state of mind. Roya doesn’t owe us her presence or attention.


#nostrsimps afuera!


Nostroya


Take care of yourself Queen. 💜🫂


It was a good run Roya! I took 6 months off, I hope you can come back!

Take all the time needed!


Wait, what? Is this Roya???


Sadly yes she is gone. We are all hoping this is an April’s fool joke but who knows. I mean she erased everything.


It’s ok, at times people need a good long break and maybe they will be back.


I don’t think you can undelete your nostr


wtf happened here. this is some bullshit. fuck we need her back


That's retarded.


You can, there’s a GitHub thing by nostr:npub1x3azxuysp5vmfer4vgs4jn5tmfcx4ew8sh0qnev7gczljxsr7jwqa3g4el.

https://github.com/Yonle/undelete-my-nostr


I really hope its a bad april fools joke 👻


When people(men?) show their true colors, you mute them?

I do think nostr needs the ability to limit how others can interact with one’s own posts. If I want to turn off commenting, reactions, or limit such things to a list of npubs I approve of, that should be possible.

Such things would prevent this experience in my opinion.


Great, then invite her back.


She hasn’t deleted her account just changed the name to ‘nobody’.


By your conclusion of the existence of Nostr, could you please enlighten me what Nostr is?
If Roya is the soul of Nostr, then you probably should invite or find more people like her to enrich the advancement of Nostr right?


That’s how delete on Damus works. It removes the profile details and sets a delete flag so the nsec can’t be used again.


Yep. Daniel’s right. The nsec is gone.


Btw, will those pictures be deleted or hidden?


Photos are hosted on AWS so they can only be deleted manually either by asking nostr:npub1nxy4qpqnld6kmpphjykvx2lqwvxmuxluddwjamm4nc29ds3elyzsm5avr7 or removing them if they’re on a self-managed service.


No her account name has changed this is it

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That’s just how “delete” works, nostr:npub1el3mgvtdjpfntdkwq446pmprpdv85v6rs85zh7dq9gvy7tgx37xs2kl27r.


Account deletion is basically setting nane as "nobody" and putting `"deleted": true` into your metadata so the nsec could not be used in certain client like damus / plebstr


This was a condition of the iOS App Store.


I imagine if she saved her nsec she could restore her account.


With some assistance.


Cause of Apple App store policy, it is impossible to delete nostr account with all clients except fediverse software


Just stopping by your acct to say love you #BesosDulceNiña


What was the last straw?