yes~! needless to say, i was always drawn to more assertive girls when i was younger, but faaaarrr too shy and ashamed to pursue them or admit it. although this was something i knew i wanted, i hid myself due to external pressures and expectations. my Wife, who is a beautiful blend of sweet, funny, and bossy, sent out signals i simply couldn't resist. <333 just the energy of Her presence, and framework and structure She brought was something i truly needed at that time in my life.