Is the nib the pointy end bit? 

Because what I hated was it felt like I was scratching and digging into the paper. 

What fixes that? 

(I'm imagining your answer is going to be "skills! Get good boy!" And that's why I hated it 🤣🤣 it felt like you were supposed to play with the pressure and how hard you were doing it for different lines. But it also felt like all I was doing was making holes and grooves in the paper and getting ink on my desk 🤷🏽)