Arch can be great if you configure it correctly and do some maintenance here and there. I've been running Arch for over 2 years just fine. But if you do not want to tinker that much, maybe try out OpenSUSE Tumbleweed for a rolling release. Or the new pop os alpha with their cosmic DE if you are feeling adventurous, it is pretty good already. I wouldn't recommend Debian on the desktop, the packages are just too old for most of the things you want.