For sure —building those deep connections with everyone isn’t practical. It makes sense that we rely on simpler ways to understand most people we meet, and I agree that only a few people can really fit into that inner circle where you know them on that deeper level.
For me, it’s not so much about wanting to know everyone deeply; it’s more about reminding myself not to judge people too quickly. I want to stay open to the fact that there’s more to everyone than what I first see, even if I don’t get to know all the layers. Also, cheese and chocolate fondue with those few close people sounds wonderful especially in this sweater weather!