OK so, first try with nostr:
I'm using "gossip" (github.com/mikedilger/gossip) because it's open source, and it's a program that runs on your computer.  Which is the idea of this whole decentralization thing right?
But...  I don't know if anyone is following me, I can't find anything about that.  I posted a few days ago and never saw any replies, but then looked on iris.to and there *were* a bunch of replies.
Does anyone know if there are docs about how to use gossip?  Using a common word for the name of the software makes it pretty search-resistant, and in the docs/ folder of the repo there's not really anything about how to use it.
Maybe it's some setting like "fetch replies to notes you posted" that I need to enable.  And also should probably be enabled by default.  Because otherwise can't really talk to people on this :)