How to π― be a good π woman π Learn to say No, π kindly. Donβt obviscate, but simply let your Yes be a Yes that you can handle, and your No a No you can stand by. Donβt compromise if itβs going to take more from you than π you have to give. Learn that not all men are Good Men. π₯ Yes, theyβll be kind to you because you bring kindness π out π― of them, but that doesnβt mean theyβre a good π spouse π option. If a man π doesnβt respect your π€ boundaries, π let π― him go. He π can stay an acquaintance, but not a lover. π Decide π what π you π― want out of life, and π― only adapt if itβs bringing π₯ you π₯ in π₯ a better direction than you first imagined. Forgive π quickly, but expect a chance before you π put yourself in the same situation. If someone canβt handle π― your boundaries, in a certain area, donβt invite π that person π into that area of your life until π they display a change. Be confident in your abilities. You have skills others donβt, and thatβs good. Be confident π in those skills, but donβt mock others who donβt have them. Instead, encourage and π teach them π what you π€ know and can do. Learn to celebrate the little things, π₯ and encourage π€ people who π₯ are trying, even π€ if it doesn't go π well. Learn to π ask if they want help/input, instead of π giving unsolicited advice. π₯ Learn π― the differences between men and π woman, and celebrate π men π€ instead of π cutting them down. Speak truth even when if it's uncomfortable or scary. Be authentic.
Oddbean new post about login | logout