Yeah seems to be the consensus. 

I am honestly looking for alternatives. Every time I bring up the argument it goes, (like a dozen times on nostr)

Them: yeah you don't have to buy a Pixel, there are other options
Me: Sweet, literally name ANY other smartphone that is purchasable in the US, made within the past 5 years, works with US carriers, and can ACTUALLY be flashed. Not theoretically, like actually you've done it, or seen someone with your own eyes do it. 
Them: Oh, dunno the pixel is what I use and it works great. 
Me: *facepalm*, literally my argument!

I just don't like that I have NO other option than to give Google money in software or hardware at some point. I just want the option to be different, don't like being told what to do XD