I think you both are correct. nostr:npub13mw9yuzmyv269mtjrcdppgfasjwc4tc9uk5flp7jthnq965j3llqlwjy8k your words are true as long as there is NO STATE issuing a license. Once, two people get involved with a STATE license (paying fiat for a fiat betrothal license) that relationship IS a state sanctioned entitlement.