I didn't even start with an app

I started by creating an account on nostr:nprofile1qqsyv47lazt9h6ycp2fsw270khje5egjgsrdkrupjg27u796g7f5k0spzemhxue69uhk2er9dchxummnw3ezumrpdejz7qgwwaehxw309ahx7uewd3hkctcprdmhxue69uhkummnw3ez6vfwde3x7tnpdenkzmnf9e3k75xqss4 and started with the iris.to desktop app

It was only once I understood the whole keypair thing that I downloaded the Damus app

It was a steep learning curve