How to be a good woman π Learn π to say No, kindly. π₯ Donβt obviscate, but simply let your π― Yes π₯ be a π― Yes that you π can handle, π and your π No a No π you can π₯ stand by. Donβt compromise if itβs going to take more π€ from you than π you π have π to give. π Learn that not all men are Good Men. π₯ Yes, theyβll be kind to you because you bring kindness out of π them, but that doesnβt mean π― theyβre a π₯ good spouse option. If a man doesnβt π respect your boundaries, π let him go. He can stay an acquaintance, but not a lover. Decide what π₯ you π₯ want out of life, and only adapt if itβs bringing you in a π better direction π€ than you first imagined. Forgive quickly, but expect a chance before you put π yourself in the same situation. If someone canβt π₯ handle your boundaries, π€ in a certain area, π donβt invite that person into that area of your life π until they display a change. Be confident in π― your abilities. You have skills others donβt, π and thatβs good. π Be confident in those skills, but donβt mock others who donβt π₯ have them. Instead, encourage and teach them π₯ what you know and π can do. Learn to celebrate the π little things, and encourage people who are trying, even if it doesn't go well. Learn to ask if they want help/input, instead of giving π unsolicited advice. Learn the π differences π between men and π₯ woman, π and celebrate men π instead of cutting π― them down. Speak truth even π― when if it's uncomfortable or scary. Be π₯ authentic.
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