family are a bit different as you didn't choose them.

But there are ways of surrounding yourself with integrity. The genesis block aka "first good friends" are the hardest to find but once you find them you can use the network effect to grow your network of integrity quickly.

"Good people know good people" basically.

So the next time you have a party and you invite those genesis friends: tell each one to bring along their top 1 or 2 friends... and see what happens... ;)