if there was no plan there was no A

if you are an adult and you cause something to be put at risk of harm, an ADULT must take responsibility for it, or their freedom has to be limited in order to prevent them continuing to make such bad decisions and causing more harm

it is not the fault of the child as it grows up to not be properly educated and trained to fulfill the responsibilities of an adult human

if you don't feel regret at a thing which by all measures of jurisprudence constituted harm and you got away with it, then idk, maybe we can't have a conversation