Okay when people who should know better start posting nonsense about feeling sorry for the shitty #CoerciveControlExNazi it means that I have delayed posting this long enough.

The partnership that produced the disgusting HateGate white( supremacist)-washing of a shitty anti-Semitic, racist, transphobic, sexist, &c. "podcast fan club" — that has already inspired violence, mind — stems from my refusal to work with Elisa Hategan.

Because people never learn that simply having "common enemies" doesn't make someone your friend, it started out with simply amplifying each other's hatred of me, then evolved into an attempted takedown of their much more important common enemy (the Canadian Anti-Hate Network), before devolving in a completely predictable way. #CAHNspiracy 

Why wouldn't I work with her?

Despite all her claims of single-handedly taking down the Heritage Front and then turning her life around, I saw only a selfish, hateful person who has an entire lifetime of using people until they no longer serve a purpose — and then turning on them. (I suspect the same applies to #CarymaNgo, but I only have 2 years of data for that one.)

I'm old enough to remember the Heritage Front (HF).  I lived on College Street across the street and one block east of Sneaky Dees through university. I remember what actually went down, not the talk show circuit version she's still peddling.

Much later, when the holocaust survivors group I volunteer with informed me that Hategan would be coming on board, I checked with friends ro find out whether I had perhaps missed the MAKING AMENDS portion of deradicalization.

I had not.

Now, let me remind you: I'm Black.
I, and ONLY I, get to determine which former fash I am comfortable with in my sphere.

#CoerciveControlExNazi blames fellow ex-HF member Liz Moore for that decision (much like she blames her for everything else in her life). Nope.

The problem for Elisa is: She thinks her version of events is the only one out there at this point, when it's NOT EVEN THE ONLY VERSION SHE HAS TRIED TO PEDDLE in book form (and she might want to update the American Amazon version of her book if she wants to sell her fiction as fact — see images below).

Nein.

So when I was informed that I would now have the "opportunity" to VOLUNTEER MY TIME with this little gem who thinks she should dine out forever on her tale of taking down the Neo-Nazi group SHE CHOSE TO JOIN IN THE FIRST PLACE, I politely declined.

I also told them that I was declining to give a reason because of her litigious nature, but the great thing about volunteering is that when something comes along that's a deal-breaker, you can JUST STOP. 🛑

As a result of NOT working with her (and I cannot even imagine the nightmare that would have come from making the mistake of accepting her into my sphere):

1️⃣ She first asked BirdChanVerse if there might be a way to FORCE ME TO WORK WITH HER. I mean, sure, but that's called "slavery" and it's kinda illegal.

2️⃣ Then a few months later she asked #CarymaNgo whether my refusal to work with her and telling the org that I wouldn't get into WHY because "she's litigious" constitutes defamation.

3️⃣ Meanwhile, she'd apparently been stalking me online and saying who knows what to people, but I got a phone call from the head of the org, who is a personal friend, saying that he's worried that I was ❝selling psychedelic mushrooms online❞ 🤷🏾‍♀️ (they've been trying to use the anti-Black "substance abuse" strategy for some time now).

4️⃣ She broke the website that was working JUST FINE when I handed it off BEFORE she officially came on-board and expected me to fix it for free! (I ended up having to fix it, anyway, when she left.)

5️⃣ She's STILL using the organization’s branded twitter feed to push her personal vendetta against me for ... NOT wanting to have anything to do with her.

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I'm not exactly left feeling like the advice "oh no, run screaming in the opposite direction of that person" was bad advice.

And I'm not exactly inclined to share any other advice with anyone who asks me.

So, congratulations, I guess?
Her reputation is an accurate reflection of her actions, not that she has ever taken an ounce of responsibility for a goddamned thing in her life.

Don't be fucking feeling sorry for her ass in the wake of being tossed aside by #CarymaNgo and #CreepySpouseInDaHouse

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