oldish dad of 7 here. my advice is to nostr:nevent1qqsxn3qhtgp9kmvlskzha2cd73u7jgvdnpwrwz7kpkr5n7f0h50qe5cpr4mhxue69uhkummnw3ezucnfw33k76twv4ezuum0vd5kzmp0qgswm2tvhyawehtp4hsvr7wjhl0etfl8dncu4zvzpsuwdexw54wqcpgrqsqqqqqpl2k3d0