He's into BTC believing in first comer advantage. You are obviously into Monero, believing that "better" will prevail in the end.
What you’re saying is true. But the bigger issue I’m addressing is that I’m trying to have an inclusive culture where we coexist. He’s trying to be exclusive to Bitcoin-only while at the same time bitching about Big Tech’s network effect. My point: If we all got along, then we can win.