and yes, it was easy to find, just not easy to find where to find the rest of the thread

it would be really nice to have a simple tool that just trawls all of the relays with a custom filter... actually, ...

this would be the filter:

{
  "authors":["dace63b00c42e6e017d00dd190a9328386002ff597b841eb5ef91de4f1ce8491"],
 "#e": ["d3226b6e537a70b866ee83c09d48165d98e079104bf782f957f1bfd468c45d0e"],
  "limit": 200
}

i tried doing it with nostrudel's event console but it gave no results on my relay list, maybe you would have better luck