Oddbean new post about login | logout I can barely stand most of the people I know from high school and college etc. mainly because I would never choose those types of relationships for myself now.
interesting. I’m somewhat the opposite. in junior high & my freshman year of high school, I hung out with the wrong crowd—most of them ended up dropping out. I realized they were headed nowhere, & I literally had to fistfight my way out of those friendships. that’s when I realized who I wanted—actually, who I *needed to surround myself with. most of my adult friendships are still today rooted from those changes I made in my teens and twenties