Nah, they all know vaguely I've been "controversial," they just don't understand why. This group was all my age or older. I really didn't mean to get TERFy on them, I just wanted help eating the apple crisp. But alas, most social occasions turn out this way, because if anyone asks what's going on with me, I'll tell them about my latest scheduled talk being cancelled or some such and one thing leads to another.