Maybe that’s the issue right here. I know a 78 year old woman who still does all the things because she never relied on men to do them. Her son has to tell her she can’t go on the roof anymore now 😂 She would never describe herself as a feminist. She’s just a strong woman. Her children adore her. Maybe that’s just the country way. IDK 🤷🏻♀️ As I grew up in the city & am similar it’s probably more who the person is. Nature versus nurture & such.